Christ Medina - What Are Words

Beautiful drawings

winter drawing

in  the see

winter drawing

winter drawing

winter drawing

winter drawing

in the village

drawing of lion

drawing of old Bejin

drawing of old Bejin

drawing of old Bejin

sleeping angle

a bird with a gilr

scared girl

just nice drawing

beautiful drawing

Yesterday once more - The Carpenters

What is hate?

Hate is a very strong feeling of dislike for somebody or something. It is more simple conception of what hate is. But we need other explain to understand hate well.


So, I have other important questions. Where is hate from? Is it from us? or Is it from other people?
I think, hate is always from others to us. Hate is never from us to us!!! I mean if we hate someone, it is not our fault. Someone has done bad thing in our life, so we hate them. In other words: We don`t hate someone who doesn`t do bad  things in our life.

Everybody knows that hate is not good, but we hate if someone does something very bad in our life. Is it wrong ? If you are not stupid, you hate a bad person who does very bad things for you. Of course forgive is a good thing. But our heart feels hate when very bad things happen in our life because of other people. Even though our brain says to us we should forgive them, our heart feels hate. I think heart always says true feel. I believe that there is a time to hate and a time to forgive. Our heart knows that time. If you hate someone right now, it is not wrong. Because it is just your true feel from your heart. One day, a time to forgive will come from your heart to you!
 
I have a idea, but I don`t know it is good or bad. This is my idea: If we can control hate, maybe we go to successful life. Because sometimes hate makes us strong to win others. I mean you can hate some people, but don`t do bad things for them. You just try to live better than them. Maybe it can make you success in your life.

I don`t know hate is good or bad, but I believe my feeling. I mean I know I hate someone or I forgive someone. 

How to be honest with yourself?

Human life is always very interesting subject ever. We can find many questions or answers from it. But we have many questions no good answers. So, if you want to discover new idea, you can learn yourself. I know you can discover new things for you.

Sometime we don`t understand ourselves. It is very difficult that we know what we really want. Because we usually mystify ourselves like it is good for me or it will be better soon etc. This mystify makes feel better us. So we like it. 

But we try to be honest with ourselves. Maybe it helps us that we understand ourselves, what we really think and who we really are.

Here are some advices:

1.  Don`t be afraid to know true about yourself. Why people can`t be honest with themselves because they are afraid of it. It is not important that you are good or not good person. You know yourself is very important.
2. You should believe yourself. Hear what your heart say! Just believe it. 
3. Think about yourself. You should have time for thinking about you. You can find who you are.
4. Forgive yourself! If we can`t forgive ourselves, we won`t honest ourselves. Don`t think you are bad person. Just forgive yourself. Maybe you are better person than you think about yourself.
5. Meet honest people! They can say true words about you. 

If you cannot do these, don`t worry. Maybe it is better that we shouldn`t be honest with ourselves. Because we don`t have to be perfect. It is just life that sometimes we can`t be honest with ourselves or don`t understand others. Because life is too big and difficult subject. 
I usually can`t be honest myself but I try to be honest myself. Now, I have just started to know about how to be honest with myself little bit. Then I understand I love myself very much:)

So, how about you? How is your feel like how to be honest with yourself?

Naran - Welcome to my heart (English version)